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I talk a lot about my pro-choice stance and feminism in general. At the age of 18 I had an abortion. I have no regrets about it, and I am not shy when talking about it. I'm always willing to answer questions or have a debate as long as everything remains mature. If you have a problem with this, or don't want to see it then I wouldn't recommend following me.

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Name's Melissa, but you can call me missa.

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Birth Control 101 For Idiots

bemusedlybespectacled:

This is hormonal birth control.

As you can see on the box, you take exactly one pill per day. To make sure it works, you need to take one pill every day at the same time, or it stops working. You take only one pill, and you keep taking them regardless of what you are doing that day.

Hormonal birth control can be used to treat a lot of different diseases, like anemia caused by excessive menstruation. It is a prescription medication that can cost around $15-50 a month. Because it is a prescription medication, it should be covered by insurance, as it treats legitimate health problems.

This is Viagra.

It, too, can treat legitimate health problems like altitude sickness and pulmonary hypertension, but it is usually prescribed for erectile dysfunction. Unlike the Pill, Viagra is taken every time you want to have sex. A lot of health insurance companies cover Viagra, so it costs about as much as your co-pay.

This is a condom.

It is not a prescription medication, and has no health benefits (besides the prevention of STIs and pregnancy). Like Viagra, you must use one before you have sex: indeed, before each sex act. They cost about a dollar per condom.

This is Sandra Fluke.

She testified before a small, Democrat-led hearing after she was cut out of the actual birth control/insurance discussion. Her testimony was about a friend of hers who, because her insurance did not cover birth control, lost an ovary due to an ovarian cyst.

This somehow translates into “I, myself, personally, am having so much sex I can’t afford birth control, and so I want the government to pay for it.”

This is wrong for multiple reasons.

  1. It was about a friend, not her. To say her testimony was about her personally is factually incorrect.
  2. Sex had nothing to do with the testimony - her friend lost an ovary because of medical condition that was left untreated. A medical condition that was completely treatable, but wasn’t, because her insurance wouldn’t cover it. To say that her testimony was about her being “a slut” or “a prostitute” is factually incorrect.
  3. Even if she was having loads of sex, she would still only have one pill a day, not one pill per sex act, so to say “I’m having so much sex I can’t afford birth control” is completely erroneous. The Pill is not Viagra or condoms. To say that she is such “a slut” that she constantly needs more pills is factually incorrect.
  4. The current political debate is not “should the government pay for birth control?” The debate is “should insurance companies, that people and their employers pay for, on their own, be required to cover birth control?” To say that Sandra Fluke wants the government to pay for her birth control is factually incorrect.
  5. Religious organizations do not want to have birth control covered by their insurance, even for employees not of their faith, even if their employees never actually use their insurance to cover birth control. By this logic, they should also not pay their employees, because they could use that money to pay for birth control out of pocket. To say that this issue is about religious freedom and not about women’s health is disingenuous, as Ms. Fluke’s testimony demonstrates.

Hopefully this makes things a little clearer.

truth-has-a-liberal-bias:

Are Republicans talking about jobs, climate change, the economy, health care, education…etc.? 
Nope. 
The Republicans are concerned about birth control.
Birth Control.
That’s the most pressing issue to the Republican Party in 2012.

truth-has-a-liberal-bias:

Are Republicans talking about jobs, climate change, the economy, health care, education…etc.?

Nope.

The Republicans are concerned about birth control.

Birth Control.

That’s the most pressing issue to the Republican Party in 2012.

nonplussedbyreligion:

divineirony:
Santorum Takes Climate Change Denial To A Biblical Level
Climate change denial has become a litmus test for modern Republicans, but Rick Santorum, in his fondness for melding faith and government, has become one of the precious few to cite the Bible as evidence that the science-accepting crowd has it all wrong — and apparently the first to bring that thinking to the presidential stage.
“We were put on this Earth as creatures of God to have dominion over the Earth, to use it wisely and steward it wisely, but for our benefit not for the Earth’s benefit,” Santorum told a Colorado crowd earlier this month.
He went on to call climate change “an absolute travesty of scientific research that was motivated by those who, in my opinion, saw this as an opportunity to create a panic and a crisis for government to be able to step in and even more greatly control your life.”
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THE ENTIRE WORLD IS WATCHING THIS HAPPEN IN AMERICA! THE ENTIRE WORLD! Yes that was in all caps because I was yelling.  I’m so embarrassed and I’m not the one saying this shit.  But people will say, “Americans are stupid” not just Santorum and his ilk.  I can’t not blog about politics because our politicians have turned into televangelists.  Un-freaking-believable!  ~ Kim

nonplussedbyreligion:

divineirony:

Santorum Takes Climate Change Denial To A Biblical Level

Climate change denial has become a litmus test for modern Republicans, but Rick Santorum, in his fondness for melding faith and government, has become one of the precious few to cite the Bible as evidence that the science-accepting crowd has it all wrong — and apparently the first to bring that thinking to the presidential stage.

“We were put on this Earth as creatures of God to have dominion over the Earth, to use it wisely and steward it wisely, but for our benefit not for the Earth’s benefit,” Santorum told a Colorado crowd earlier this month.

He went on to call climate change “an absolute travesty of scientific research that was motivated by those who, in my opinion, saw this as an opportunity to create a panic and a crisis for government to be able to step in and even more greatly control your life.”

Read More

THE ENTIRE WORLD IS WATCHING THIS HAPPEN IN AMERICA! THE ENTIRE WORLD! Yes that was in all caps because I was yelling.  I’m so embarrassed and I’m not the one saying this shit.  But people will say, “Americans are stupid” not just Santorum and his ilk.  I can’t not blog about politics because our politicians have turned into televangelists.  Un-freaking-believable!  ~ Kim

stockardchanning:

pantslessprogressive:

Asshole Crowd Moment of the Night: A gay soldier proposed a question regarding the repeal of DADT: ”Do you intend to circumvent the progress that has been made” on allowing lesbian and gay individuals to serve in the military? Members of the crowd booed the soldier.
Rick Santorum responded to the question, saying, “We would reinstitute that policy if Rick Santorum was president. Period.”

supporting the troops is only okay if they’re straight
because only the straight guys are risking their lives
that definitely makes sense

This shit has seriously pissed me the fuck off. Can the heartless GOP/Christian/conservative/anti progressive people just gtfo and make their own country where they rule under a theocracy run my corporations and the upper class. Seriously, I don’t want to share a country anymore with these bigots. 

stockardchanning:

pantslessprogressive:

Asshole Crowd Moment of the Night: A gay soldier proposed a question regarding the repeal of DADT: ”Do you intend to circumvent the progress that has been made” on allowing lesbian and gay individuals to serve in the military? Members of the crowd booed the soldier.

Rick Santorum responded to the question, saying, “We would reinstitute that policy if Rick Santorum was president. Period.”

supporting the troops is only okay if they’re straight

because only the straight guys are risking their lives

that definitely makes sense

This shit has seriously pissed me the fuck off. Can the heartless GOP/Christian/conservative/anti progressive people just gtfo and make their own country where they rule under a theocracy run my corporations and the upper class. Seriously, I don’t want to share a country anymore with these bigots.